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Part 4 - Being Servantlike

Mark 10:35-45   -   21 February 2010

Andrew Lim

In the early ‘60’s the National Institute of Mental Health in the USA
 acquired a property in a rural area in the state of Maryland
 And it was here that Dr John Calhoun
  conducted his most famous experiment
   He created what was called “a mouse universe”
 An the experiment was reported in the 1970 Smithsonian magazine

 The experiment revolved around a 9-foot cage
  that was designed to hold mice

The cage was designed to handle 160 mice comfortably
 It began with 8 of them
  and the initial population grew rapidly doubling every 55 days
  and in about 2 ½ years / the colony of mice
   grew into an excessive number of 2200

 And there they lived for a period of time
  2200 mice in a confined area / from which they could not escape

 Now there was always an abundance of food / an abundance of water
  nesting material / and all the provisions needed by mice
 
 There were no predators  / And all the mortality factors were removed
  except for aging of course

And Dr Calhoun watched these mice to see what they would do
 and how they would perform
  in an overcrowded / confined environment

 And he made some very interesting observations
 For example / he noticed that in order just to exist / and to stay alive
  the mice formed little cliques of 12-15 each in their groups

 He noticed an increase of aggression among the females
  and the male mice that once dominated the territory & protected it
   now gave up their position of dominance
    relinquished it / and became passive

 He noticed that the mother mice expulse the young from having milk
  before weaning was complete / wounding them in some way
   and this sort of disrupted the entire mice colony

But most important of all / he made this observation:

Their male mice withdrew completely
 they stopped fighting / they ate / they drank / they slept
 they began to engage in all the solitary pursuits
  they groomed themselves / pleased / entertained themselves

 Not only did they become completely interested in themselves
  they gave up courtship / mating / and reproduction
 
  In fact in 5 brief years / every single mouse had died
   though there was plenty of provision
    and a complete absence of disease

Now what's happening here / Here was an ideal colony
 they had everything going for them / they had everything they needed
 Yet in the end / all of them perished / every single one of them

 Though Dr Calhoun was a scientist
  he made some startling philosophical observations
  he took the fate of the population of these mice
   to be a metaphor for the potential fate of human people

 Interestingly / he considered the social breakdown as a “second death”
  with reference to the “second death” mentioned in Revelation 2:11

 But someone asked Dr Calhoun this question:
 “What result would such overcrowded conditions have / on a humanity
  grounded on a planet / from which there is no escape?”

  His answer was somewhat prophetic / and I quote:
  “We would first of all cease to reproduce our ideals
   and our basic purpose would be lost”

“Our basic purpose would soon be lost”
 What's that?
 Dr Calhoun may be thinking of something else altogether
  but what is our basic purpose / here on this crowded planet?

 Jesus Christ put His finger / right on it / when He said:
  "The Son of Man came into this world
   not to be served / but to serve
    and to give my life as a ransom" / Mark 10:45

 This is rather riveting / Jesus is here saying
  that the reason why He came to the world
  was so He could serve people / “I came into the world to serve”

 He considers His purpose to be that of a servant

 The one thing the mice missed in the cage / is the very thing
  Jesus wants for us to have / the heart of a servant
   to look out for the other creature

If you find this difficult to understand
 just remember that the disciples in His day / were equally confused
 They couldn't understand why Jesus
  should have had to humble Himself to the point of death

 When He told them that he was to be rejected and killed
  Peter rebuked him for speaking such nonsense

  The disciples saw a path that led to pomp and glory
  He saw a path of service / submission and ultimately death

  They thought He would come riding on a white stallion
  He came riding on an ass

In our story this morning
 we come upon two brothers / James and John / sons of Zebedee
 They come up to Jesus and told him:
  "Teacher we want you to do for us whatever we ask
    Lord / when you finally come into your kingdom
     let one of us sit on the right and the other on your left

 Now James and John may be close to Jesus
  but where their ambitions were concerned they it all mixed up
   and their mother Mrs Zebedee got it all mixed up too

  They want prominence / recognition / renown

  And Jesus says to them / Mark 10:42
  “You know that those who are regarded as rulers of the Gentiles
   lord it over them / and their high officials
    exercise authority over them

It's true in our own world
 If you work in a factory / you have workers and managers
 If you work in an office / there are bosses and there are employees
 If you are in a school / there are students and there are teachers
 If you are in a team / there are coaches / and there are players
 
 And Jesus is saying here / that that's the nature of bosses
  Bosses boss over people

Then he says this / verse 43 / “But it shall not be so with you”
 Instead / whoever wants to become great among you
  must be your servant / and whoever wants to be first must
   be slave of all.

Now this / is counter cultural / This is not the way things normally work
 And Peter and the other disciples never quite understood it
 And we don’t quite get it too

But it is so clear to our Lord
 To Him true greatness is found in serving people

In some cryptic way / John 13 reveals a connection
 between being a servant and being willing to die for another
 The story is told rather simply
  you may easily miss out / on the depth of its meaning

 It simply tells us that the evening meal was being served
  and the devil had already prompted Judas to betray Jesus
 Then it goes on to say that Jesus knew
  that the Father had put all things under his power
   and that he had come from God and was returning to God
 
Now / let’s not rush this
 Jesus is here saying / the Father has put all things under His power
  John 13:3

  Now what’s that? At the very least / that must include
   - power over all the kingdoms of the world
    all the massive proud structures of this world
     are in His hands to do as He please
    the Eiffel Tower / that is only a match-stick in his hands
     
   In His hands / is power over all the forces of nature
    he controls the tornados / tidal waves / tsunamis
    volcanic eruptions
    the orbits of all the spinning planets in the entire universe
     he assigns the birthday of each star
     he sends them plummeting into black holes
      by the power of his word / Hebrews 1:3

  Closer to home / He has power 
   - over the hearts and minds of every human person
   - over your lifespan on earth 
  
 This is utterly amazing / John 13:3 says
  Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power
  and the very next line very simply says
   “So he got up from the meal / took off his outer clothing
    and wrapped a towel around his waist / poured water
    into a basin and began to wash his disciples' feet
     and drying them with the towel” / That’s Jn 13:2-5

How are we to configure this?
 Jesus / knowing that everything in the entire universe
  is under His power
   took a basin of water / and wash His disciples’ feet

We live in a time when many of us are terribly status-conscious
  - we daydream of what we can be
  - like James and John / we have delusions of grandeur
  - each one of us hope to achieve a place of prominence
  
 The Chief Executive Officer is in an enviable position
    and each of his juniors / hopes to occupy his shoes one day

 But Jesus tells us that the person who is great in God's eyes
  should be more concerned to clean the other guy's shoes   
   than seek to occupy them

But you and I are infected by the selfishness of our present Me Generation
 Selfishness and greed are not only tolerated
  they are unashamedly promoted and encouraged

 Did you ever think that you’d live to see the day
  when people openly celebrate this sort of depravity
   We've become so incurably preoccupied with ourselves
    its become an obsession

 Never mind if my child is missing me / I've got to be happy myself
 Never mind if my spouse needs me / I’ve got to gratify myself
 Never mind if the church of Christ is short-handed
  I just haven’t got the time

 And living in a time such as ours / it’s so easy to forget other people

Today / we see fewer and fewer decisions made with God’s will in view

 On practically all issues / people unblushingly ask questions
  that reveal / that they're putting their appetites first 
   Does this fulfil my needs?  Does it quench my thirst for more? 
   Does it feed my lust for power? 

 Within one generation
  our role model switched from Mother Teresa to Madonna

When I was growing up / my father kept chickens and ducks and turkey
 Now when you take ten chickens / any ten / put them in a pen together
  and spread a little chicken feed
   in no time you will see something really amazing

 In a matter of minutes / the chickens / previously strangers
  will form a hierarchy based on dominance

 They will establish / what we now call "a Pecking Order"
  Very quickly / through a series of skirmishes
   they will determine who No. 1 Chicken will be
    - then the No. 2 / then No. 3
    - all the way down to the unfortunate No. 10 Chicken

  Chicken No. 1 pecks at Chicken No. 2
   without any fear that it'll  be pecked back by Chicken No 2
  Chicken No. 2  will take it from Chicken No. 1
   but it will turn around / and peck away at Chicken No. 3
   who will / in turn / take out its frustration on Chicken No. 4

 The Pecking Order continues all the way down to Chicken Number 10
  who has a pretty miserable life: Pecked / but no one to peck

But let's not be too hard on the chicken !

You and I know that this kind of thing happens in real life / everywhere:
 at sporting events / children’s parties / PTA meetings / class reunions   
  - sadly even at Church

 Very few people are immune to this disease
  Nearly all of us / we look at other people
   we try to figure out where they  fit in the Pecking Order

 I've been to dinners / where I have to sit at table with nine strangers
  not knowing a single person / and yet after a few initial questions
   each one can generally tell / and sometimes quite accurately
    the pecking order from 1 to 10
 
  It doesn't take long / You listen for titles / You look for tip-offs
   - names people drop / clothes and accessories people wear
   - places they have holidayed / type of cars they drive

There is something very sick here
There is something here that runs deep / in every human heart
 and it is not just a little game that we play
  We want to be somebody / it counts being somebody
  We enjoy the attention / the focus / the admiration
 
 When you take a long hard look at the matter - its ultimately pride! 

And not one of us here is spared
We all easily fall prey to that dangerous game 

 When you've known some measure of success
  in your profession or career or even ministry
 When you're put in a place of authority
  the quickest thing you will forget
   is that you are a servant of Jesus Christ and servants to people
 
  Thomas Carlyle / the Scottish essayist once said:
   "For everyone who can handle prosperity
    there are hundreds who can handle adversity"
  You think you are humbled by adversity
   the real test of humility / comes when you've made it good

Yet in all of history / no one was a more qualified candidate
 to stand right at the apex of the Pecking Order / than Jesus Christ. 

 Just think about it
  - He owns everything / He owns every person
  - Every piece of all the real estate in the world / is His
  - the destiny of every man / woman and child / is in His hands
  - He has a rightful place to the right hand of the throne of God
  - He has the supreme place of honour in the cosmos

   The First Place in Pecking Order was His for the taking

Yet He divested Himself of all that
 He hated the Pecking Order / He spurned it

 To Jesus / the Pecking Order is not only inherently flawed
    it is a working definition of evil

 That was why He threw a wrench into the whole depraved system
  He spent His entire ministry ripping at its foundations
  He seized every opportunity to turn the Pecking Order
   upside down and inside out

He is God but not once
 did He look upon His divine status as something to be grasped
  He used His power / for the powerless
  He showered love / upon the loveless
  He served those / who couldn’t possibly return the favour

 Only once in the entire Bible / did Jesus describe His own temperament
  And this was what He said: “I am meek and lowly in heart”
He visited those in prison
He invited orphans and widows to banquets  
He threw parties for those on the fringes of society
He cared for the elderly / the blind / and the sick
He healed the lepers / He fed the hungry
He ate and drank with the worst of sinners / He loved them

  He was always looking out for Chickens No. 9 and 10

Jesus took the world’s value system /ripped it right across the grain into half
 
And He tells you and I to do the most troublesome thing
 we've ever been told to do
 He said if you want to be authentic and real
  you need to be stubbornly defy what the world is telling you to do
   
 He's saying to us:
  "Look / Its a dog-eat-dog world out there
   and people everywhere are grabbing all they can for themselves
   Don’t do that!”
 
    “Do nothing out of selfish ambition Instead / be humble
    Consider others better than yourselves” / Phil 2:3
 
  And He didn't put a footnote at the bottom of the page
   He didn’t say / “Do this / if you feel you like doing it”
    No / He attached no qualifiers to it

   Instead / He says / “You call me Teacher and Lord
    and you are right / for so I am
    If I then / your Lord and Teacher have washed your feet
     you also ought to wash one another’s feet
    For I have given you an example
     that you also should do just as I have done to you”
      John 13:13 - 15

   He’s saying / “Unless you're willing to serve people
    you cannot say that you are following Me”

Pride / or greed / or selfishness is not simply a virus that can be killed off
 by taking a pill for it

 Jesus told us it is a disease from hell / deeply rooted in the human heart
 And only by dying to our selfish self / can that disease be rooted out

 He said unless a seed falls down and dies / it cannot sprout to new life
  He wasn't talking of dying a biological death here
  He was talking about our need to die to ourselves
  - to say "No" to our selfishness and greed

But really / if you are a Christian you have already died
 And let’s never think that / it will take a few years of spiritual maturity
  before we can truly die to the world

 You don’t die is stages to your selfishness
 You died / the day you became a Christian

 This is the true meaning of becoming a Christian
 Becoming a Christian involves your dying
  the very first day you became a Christian

  The Bible couldn’t make it anymore clearer
   Galatians 5:24 / “Now those who belong to Christ Jesus
    have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires”

 And not only have we died / in some paradoxical way
  we are to die daily / to the values and passions of this world

  Luke 9:23 / “If anyone wishes to come after Me
   let him deny himself / take up his cross daily / and follow Me”

I want for us all to leave church this morning aspiring to be humbler
 than we were when we walked in this morning

 For that / I want to challenge us by asking ourselves a few questions:

  When people don’t thank you / are you offended?
  When people give you one task after another / are you offended?
  When you are not recognised / are you offended?
  When people don’t think highly of you / are you offended?

  If your answer and my answer / to all those questions
   is a resounding “Yes”
    then we are serving / even before we have come to terms
     that we are no more than servants

  Someone has wisely said
  “Don’t serve until you’ve first settled / the servanthood issue
   Don’t serve / until you have come to terms
    with the teaching of Jesus
     that you are truly / only a servant”

This is quite profound really

 As Richard Foster rightly observes
  there IS a difference between “serving” / and “being a servant”

  Not everyone who serves / is a servant

  Serving people alone / doesn’t make you a servant
  But if you are truly a servant / you will serve
   gladly / thanklessly / humbly
    without a murmur / without a complaint

   A servant does not serve himself / at least not firstly
   A servant does not look out for himself
    his job is to make the lives of other people better
    his job is to serve people / attend to their needs
    he has no standing
    he is often the last to eat

   He does not look to be thanked / or wait for appreciation
    He expects no speeches made about his contribution
    He does not expect to be repaid
    He does not expect to be noticed / or commended
    He is at someone’s beck and call
     and indeed he is called on at odd hours

   His place is to quietly serve
    saying nothing to himself / saying nothing to others
    knowing his place / and quietly content about his place

  If people in church serve this way
   we will see little of the disruptions of relationships we see

Lorne Sanny / one of the heads of the Navigators was once asked
 how we can tell if we have the attitude of a servant

 His answer is profound / he said
  “You know you’re a servant
   by how you react / when you’re treated like one”

 This / is the heart of the matter
 Have I come to a quiet / settled / acceptance / that I am only a servant

 Isn’t it the case that if I am a true servant / I should be treated like one?
 And isn’t it the case that if I am a true servant
  then / when I am treated like one I should react like a true servant?
   subservient / unassertive / and servile

A servant heart is the ground
 upon which / every other aspect of our Christian life is built
 
 A servant heart is everything
  Without it / you can’t have faith in God / you can’t pray / worship

 If you will not truly humble yourself
  you will not choose to make yourself dependent on Christ
  you will not see yourself as a weak and sinful person
   Without a servant-heart / you will not have faith in God

 If you will not truly humble yourself
  you will not make much of the worth of God
   Without a servant-heart / you will not worship God

 If you will not humble yourself
  you will not submit to God’s laws and desires / and obey them
   Without a servant heart/ you will not obey God

 If you will not humble yourself
  you will not go out of your way to love people and serve them
   Without a servant heart / you will not serve

 If you will not humble yourself
  you will imagine that everything you have / you’ve got it made
   Without a servant heart / you will not be thankful
   
  But if you have a servant heart / you will see
   that your skills / talents / wit / looks / intelligence / possessions
   savings / family
    everything / including whatever influence you might have
     have come as a gift from the gracious hand of God
     and there is absolutely nothing in me to boast about

Sometimes we are afraid to be servant-like because we imagine
 that being servant-like will reduce us
  to someone who is weak / timid / soft / afraid / gutless

  That / will be so if all this time / that you are confident
   your confidence has been that of your own / self-confidence

   But self-confidence can never be a source of true strength

It is not true that being servant-like
 will reduce you to be a fearful timid person
 
 In fact the very opposite is true
 
 If you really want to be strong bold unafraid and filled with courage
  choose to be a nobody
   but a nobody / who has God ONLY on his side

  When the people of Israel became filled with fear
   Isaiah rebuked them saying “Just who do you think you are
    that you should be afraid of man / who dies
     and who have forgotten the Lord / your maker?
      I am He who comforts you” / Is 51:12

  Why are you even afraid of man?
  Do you think
   that if you have your own strength and yourself-confidence
   that you will then be able to subdue your enemies
    and have forgotten the Lord your Maker?

  Just what have you been you thinking?
  It is when you throw your pride away
   and throw yourself on My mercy
   and humble yourself
    that you are the boldest / and most courageous

  We are the boldest / when we are humblest
  At the point that you hand your pride over to God
   at that point / when you are the boldest
    because that / is the moment
     when you most remember the Lord your Maker
      you are most dependent upon God

  If that is the case / then if you are timid and weak and afraid
   you are most proud
   A humble servant heart makes for the best source of courage

You serve by giving your time / your money
 you serve by giving a listening to someone in pain
 you serve by teaching someone a new skill
 you serve when you give advice and counsel
  And all that are means by which you serve
  
But supremely there is one ultimate way you serve another person
 it is when you lay down your live / and die for someone

The founder of the Navigators / Dawson Trotman
 was such a servant

 On June 18 1956 / Dawson Trotman clambered back into a motorboat
  after two hours of waterskiing on Schroon Lake / New York
  
  He was dog-tired / but before he settled down
   he asked one of the two girls in the boat / Allene Beck
    if she could swim
  When she shook her head / he traded places with her
   so she would be in a safer spot

  Minutes later the speeding boat bounced on a wave
   and all three of them / the 50-year-old man and the girls
    fell into the water

  He swam to the first girl and held her head above water
   until the boat could circle back and she was hauled aboard

  He went down and got the other girl and lifted her too
   out of the water

  But as hands reached down to seize Trotman's hand
   he sank out of sight / and was not found again
    until the dragnet found him a few hours later

A few days later there was a memorial service for Trotman
 Dr Billy Graham gave the message
 And the following week / Time magazine ran an article
  on Trotman’s life / and beneath his photo was this caption:
  ‘Always Holding Somebody Up’

 And that is perhaps as best a definition of a servant as you can get
  
 Jesus says it in so many words
  “Greater love has no one than this
   that he lay down his life for his friends” / John 15:13

  Dying for someone / that is the ultimate expression of servanthood

  And that / is what Jesus has done for you and me

  He died / for you and me / so that we might be lifted up

  And He’s always holding us up / a true servant

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